Why you never see people on your OKCupid page: Founder reveals dating site's secrets during Philly visit
What does it mean when a girl calls me ugly? : OkCupid
Now he's no longer someone I might like or seen around the website.
I have no idea what you look like but seriously I believe it has a lot more to do with these guys thinking there are so many available perfect women due to this online bs, that the rest of normal attractive women not ugly, I highly doubt you're ugly, you just aren't a movie star, like most of us get ditched cause they think they're going to find the next Angelina Jolie or whoever is the hot babe of the month and any little red flag or just something doesn't feel right, they move on.
All of my boyfriends genuinely cared about me, but I pursued or confessed or messaged first to start those.
Guys like you are precisely the reason we can't stand men.
Rudder would have wanted to survey as many people as possible and find out.
You will see a greater proportion of attractive users if you are rated highly.
Whereas the data does indicate that women, at first glance, tend to find men below average in the looks department, if you look at the data for women actually sending messages to men, you'll see that they tend to overlook or grow more comfortable in sending them messages.